Books to tame
Toddler Tantrums ~ seems to be part & parcel of growing... Some parents use spanking, authority to rule the toddler while others believes in mutual communication with toddlers instead.. Mom borrowed some books from the National Library - yeap, she decided to read up some guidance book - in hope to improve the situations...
She is on the 2nd book now, to summarise her findings - its all about building the right relationship with our toddlers as far as discipline or taming them is concerned.
Mom has a colleague - whom believes in spanking. She had 2 gals aged 7 & 5. They had been best of friends with a buddy called - The Cane. Well, it works out well for her as both the gals are scared of her (as a mother) and rather obedient. Anyway, different strokes for different folks, so a rule may not apply to all, but we should analyse the situation & take a step at a time. Below 2 books are highly recommended by Mommy, and wish to share this with other Mommies who happen to swing by my blog.
Lately, I had been rather cranky and when I "bawl", there is no tears at all but mere screaming at the top of my voice very hard. To spoil or not spoil, to spank or not to and how to go about it... Mommy will open up her thoughts thru my posts as the time goes by.