My Bro Javier

We had an appointment today - YES! To the library & back to Javier house for some play-time! I just love to be with Javier and enjoy his company very much. Mommy is happy to see us enjoying with each other. One thing she is glad, lucky she is not having 2 sons with a close age gap like say 1 year or less. That was what she had talked to Aunty Sammi the other day before. Otherwise, its gonna be a handful for Mommy. 
Few days ago, Aunty Helen also mentioned something about having kids of the same sexes. And yes, Mommy agrees that having 2 girls or more - tongues will wag especially in this Asian society. Basically, the Chinese prefers a son than daughter. Our Por Por also have 2 daughters and glad to say, both are as good and filial. Nowadays, men listen to their wives more than to their mothers. Its the same as my Mommy would want Daddy to listen to her first.*GRIN*

Having the same sexes for all the children, there are common toys to play with. Hand-me-downs are easier. On the contrary, a girl and a boy makes a chinese word 好 - which means GOOD. But there are some things where girl & boy cannot share together. So there are always pros and cons...

The verdict? Again, important is healthy kids. Sexes may play an important part because of our own personal liking & preference. But what can be more important than our kids/babies' health? Mommy being pregnant with mei mei, was on the verge of losing her when near to due date... So to her, her pregnancy is a very good lesson learnt.

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